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November 2016

Preorder Today! Foreword by Clara Hughes 


Preorder Today 🤗

Six-time Olympian, Clara Hughes writes:

“Natalie Harris offers a deeply personal, meaningful and raw glimpse into the very real struggle with illness. Illness that is typically and tragically steeped in silence. She breaks the stigma by breaking the silence. She articulates so deeply what it means to live with PTSD, depression and anxiety. I’ve had the great gift of knowing Natalie through her writings. After meeting her, I can say she is as she writes: through struggle and joy, she is a shining and clear light that’s focused on making sure the silence is ended for those living with or loving someone with similar struggles. There is no one audience for Natalie’s writings; I truly feel she writes for us all.” 

Clara Hughes, O.C., O.M.

6-time Olympic Medalist

Author of Open Heart Open Mind

Spokesperson for Bell Let’s talk

*I will be donating a portion of the proceeds to mental health initiatives world wide.

https://www.chapters.indigo.ca/en-ca/books/save-my-life-school-a/9781894813914-item.html

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Walk Down a Different Street

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Does this sound familiar to you? “It’s 6am already? Ugh I wish it was Saturday. Make the kids lunch, ok where is the bread? We don’t have bread. How do we not have bread?! Ugh…hotdog buns it is. Ok, so I have that appointment at 2, but I need to get the oil changed at 3 so I may have to leave the appointment early. Donald Trump is President! You’ve gotta be kidding me! I’m so tired of hearing about that election. I didn’t know he had two daughters. Ok where’s the dog’s leash. Why do my children never walk the dog? Who practiced their knots with the leash around the bannister? That’s it! Who made a fort in the living room last night?! Where is that leash? Oh yes, the bannister. Coffee! Yes please! What time is it? Oh my God it’s only 7am…”

Life! Busy, busy life! How do we even begin to live a peaceful and happy life with all of the chaos around us all the time? How do we sleep with so many tragedies happening every day? Well, what if I told you that the conditions in our life are NOT the causes of our suffering? What if I told you that the thoughts we choose to think and the situations we choose to place ourselves in are the causes of our suffering?

Living a peaceful life IS possible with the gift of mindfulness. But in order to reap the rewards of mindfulness to its fullest, our chaotic minds can benefit by taking a few steps to declutter them first.

This week, the Buddhist Centre teacher shared that Atisha (a Buddha from 982 AD) stated  that in the beginning of embarking on a spiritual path (peaceful life) our minds are not stable (i.e. filled with chaos) making it difficult to take and hold any teachings. Furthermore, Atisha suggested that we take the following three steps to develop external conditions and declutter our minds:

Disclaimer: I am NOT an expert at this by any means. Like not even close! However, from my attempts at practising these steps, I can say that they have definitely improved the calmness in my mind and life.

  1. Avoid places that disturb your mind. Easier said than done for sure, but if you REALLY think about it, I bet you CAN avoid places that disturb your mind more than you realize. For example, you know that when you walk down a certain street, a dog in a neighbour’s backyard will bark and startle you, which always makes you mad. Can you choose to walk down a different street?
  2. Try not to engage in worldly distractions. To me, this is an easy one. Turn off your TV or radio. You don’t NEED to hear every station’s thoughts on the election. You may be obsessed with hearing these worldly distractions more than you know, and by turning them off you are automatically removing an external source of stress.
  3. Avoid spending time with people who may have a negative impact on you. I know that we can’t avoid certain people in our lives so easily, but take a moment to stay true to your right to live in a peaceful environment by really thinking about how you can lessen the time with negative people. For example, maybe you don’t like your boss, it definitely happens. But do you NEED to sit and eat lunch with the group of staff who only complain about him or her all the time, thus making it feel like your boss is even with you at lunch? No, you don’t. You may feel out of place making the choice to eat on your own for the first little while, but the freedom from gossip will be well worth you efforts.

It makes me sad when I see and hear about people who don’t feel they can improve their lives or decrease the clutter in their mind. All I can say is, if I can do it, ANYONE can! It takes practice and mindfulness to be aware of when you have the opportunity to practice one of Atisha’s three suggestions – but it’s really worth the effort.

 

‘Save-My-Life School’ Coming Jan ’17 

My Book! (Jan ’17)

http://www.thebarrieexaminer.com/2016/11/06/how-to-save-my-life-school


“So, it is official. The ink is barely dry on the contract. Wintertickle Press is extremely excited and proud to sign Natalie Harris as their newest author. Stay tuned for the mesmerizing memoir, “Save-My-Life School,” soon to be released in January, 2017!” Publisher Heather Down 

I am very excited to be working with this amazing publisher! I can’t wait to show the world the final product in January 2017. Thank you once again to my beautiful friend Kim Byblow-Forster who encouraged me from day one to put my story into book form. 

Canadian Olympian, Mental Health Ambassador and author of ‘Open Mind Open Heart’, Clara Hughes, has provided the forward, along with Canadian Military Hero, and author of ‘Unflinched – The Making of a Canadian Sniper’, Jody Mitic.

A portion of book sales will go towards mental health initiatives ⭐️ Stay tuned for news on how to pre-order.

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